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12 Days of Christmas Creativity: Ode to Laura West

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Not only am I waxing generous with my Crazy Christmas Blowout, but the Spirit of Christmas has made me a little silly and creative. Here’s my project for today… an ode to my buddy, the creative thought leader, Laura West. It’s sung to the tune of the “12 Days of Christmas.” Enjoy!

If you really want a laugh, listen to me sing it…

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On the first day of Christmas my friend Laura gave to me

artsuppliesA box of colored Post-it Notes

On the second day of Christmas my friend Laura gave to me

TWO Sharpie Markers And a box of colored Post-it Notes

On the third day of Christmas my friend Laura gave to me

THREE Joy Journals TWO Sharpie Markers And a box of colored Post-it Notes

On the fourth day of Christmas my friend Laura gave to me

FOUR Calendars THREE Joy Journals TWO Sharpie Markers And a box of colored Post-it Notes

On the fifth day of Christmas my friend Laura gave to me

FIVE Vision Maps FOUR Calendars THREE Joy Journals TWO Sharpie Markers And a box of colored Post-it Notes

On the sixth day of Christmas my friend Laura gave to me

SIX Neo-Color Crayons FIVE Vision Maps FOUR Calendars THREE Joy Journals TWO Sharpie Markers And a box of colored Post-it Notes

On the seventh day of Christmas my friend Laura gave to me

SEVEN Acrylic Paints SIX Neo-Color Crayons FIVE Vision Maps FOUR Calendars THREE Joy Journals TWO Sharpie Markers And a box of colored Post-it Notes

Laura West, Creative Thought Leader

On the eighth day of Christmas my friend Laura gave to me

EIGHT Sticks of Glue SEVEN Acrylic Paints SIX Neo-Color Crayons FIVE Vision Maps FOUR Calendars THREE Joy Journals TWO Sharpie Markers And a box of colored Post-it Notes

On the ninth day of Christmas my friend Laura gave to me

NINE Distress Stains EIGHT Sticks of Glue SEVEN Acrylic Paints SIX Neo-Color Crayons FIVE Vision Maps FOUR Calendars THREE Joy Journals TWO Sharpie Markers And a box of colored Post-it Notes

On the tenth day of Christmas my friend Laura gave to me

TEN Box of Crayons NINE Distress Stains EIGHT Sticks of Glue SEVEN Acrylic Paints SIX Neo-Color Crayons FIVE Vision Maps FOUR Calendars THREE Joy Journals TWO Sharpie Markers And a box of colored Post-it Notes

On the eleventh day of Christmas my friend Laura gave to me

ELEVEN Ephermera (aka Bling) TEN Box of Crayons NINE Distress Stains EIGHT Sticks of Glue SEVEN Acrylic Paints SIX Neo-Color Crayons FIVE Vision Maps FOUR Calendars THREE Joy Journals TWO Sharpie Markers And a box of colored Post-it Notes

On the twelfth day of Christmas my friend Laura gave to me

TWELVE Magazines ELEVEN Ephermera TEN Box of Crayons NINE Distress Stains EIGHT Sticks of Glue SEVEN Acrylic Paints SIX Neo-Color Crayons FIVE Vision Maps FOUR Calendars THREE Joy Journals TWO Sharpie Markers And a box of colored Post-it Notes

Want to see Laura’s Art Supplies? Here’s Laura talking about creating a Joy Journal:

Visit Laura’s Business Fusion Studio to unleash your business creative genius and find out what to do with all this fun stuff! www.businessfusionstudio.com

About Marnie Pehrson

Are you a Light Bearer? Take the FREE Light Bearer Assessment. It's a quick and easy way to find out where you are in the Light Bearer Process... is a best-selling author, speaker, certified SimplyHealedTM practitioner, platform builder and publishing coach who shows you how to ignite the WOW-Factor in your life and business through the power of synergistic relationships and collaboration. To find out more about working with Marnie, click here.

What Romance Taught Me about Achieving My Dreams

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Many of us avoid putting our hearts and souls into following our dreams because we’re scared of disappointment. We’re afraid our hopes will be dashed or we’ll let ourselves down. Perhaps we’re worried about what other people will think.

joshelisehands2As I’ve re-entered the dating world, I’ve learned something important about life that applies to following your dreams.

I’m trying to be different than I used to be in a romantic relationship. I’m focusing on showing up fully as myself, opening my heart, being willing to be vulnerable and fully honest.  I’m trying to express how I feel, even when that might risk the relationship ending.

There is a risk involved when you do this. Your heart can get broken.

Yet, I realize now that much of the way I showed up in my marriage was about protecting my heart and expecting so little that I couldn’t be disappointed. I’m determined not to do that again. Did this half-hearted, self-protecting stance lead to the very thing I was trying to avoid? Perhaps. It certainly didn’t help.

I think this fear of being hurt in relationships is akin to the fear of disappointment many of us experience in goal-setting. We’re afraid of setting our hearts on something, only to suffer disappointment, self-judgment or ridicule. Defeat can be heart-breaking. So we go about our goal-setting in a half-committed way because we want to protect our hearts.

One of the realizations that came to me as I entered a new relationship was that I could get hurt. I was operating a bit out of fear, holding back because my heart could get broken.

Then, one day I came to this realization that I’d passed the point of no return. If this relationship didn’t work out, I was going to be hurt – no doubt about it. Just admitting that to myself, relieved something that allowed me to take those barriers off my heart and risk showing up fully as myself. Yes, I could get hurt, but I was going to get hurt anyway if it didn’t work out. And a case could be made that the only hope the relationship has is for me to show up fully.

If you go through your whole life and you know you could have created the life you wanted, but you didn’t try, or only half-tried, you’re going to be hurt. Whether you abdicate your ability to create or whether you give it your all and it doesn’t pan out, you’re going to get hurt. Yet, odds are, if you give it your all, you will get something. I believe God grants us according to our desires. And if we throw our hearts and souls behind our desires and do what we can, we will get something good in the end.

But if you don’t show up fully because you’re afraid of failure or being hurt, you’re destined to fail and you’re destined for disappointment.

So give it your all! Throw yourself 100% into your dreams. It’s the only way you can even hope to achieve them. And in the end you will know that you gave it your best shot, that you gave it your all. That alone, builds self-worth and shapes you into a person of character.

Join me for my next “How to Create Your Own Amazing Life Workshop

About Marnie Pehrson

Are you a Light Bearer? Take the FREE Light Bearer Assessment. It's a quick and easy way to find out where you are in the Light Bearer Process... is a best-selling author, speaker, certified SimplyHealedTM practitioner, platform builder and publishing coach who shows you how to ignite the WOW-Factor in your life and business through the power of synergistic relationships and collaboration. To find out more about working with Marnie, click here.

Quit Worrying About How!

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So many of us never go for our dreams because we can’t see HOW we’re going to get past the obstacles that loom before us. Or we never set out because we don’t know every step it will take to arrive at our destination.

Don’t let the important desires for your heart be held hostage because you don’t know how they can happen! In this video I talk about how to create your own amazing life by letting go of how it will happen…

Join me for the next How to Create Your Own Amazing Life Workshop starting in January 2014!

About Marnie Pehrson

Are you a Light Bearer? Take the FREE Light Bearer Assessment. It's a quick and easy way to find out where you are in the Light Bearer Process... is a best-selling author, speaker, certified SimplyHealedTM practitioner, platform builder and publishing coach who shows you how to ignite the WOW-Factor in your life and business through the power of synergistic relationships and collaboration. To find out more about working with Marnie, click here.

You’ve Made Your Bed, Do You Have to Lie In It?

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The old saying goes, “You’ve made your bed, now you have to lie in it.” Is that really true? When we make certain choices, do we just have to suffer the consequences? Perhaps we do for a while, but do we have to keep on suffering from them or can we create a new life?

Here are my thoughts on the subject…

Join me for the Create Your Own Amazing Life Workshop coming up soon.

About Marnie Pehrson

Are you a Light Bearer? Take the FREE Light Bearer Assessment. It's a quick and easy way to find out where you are in the Light Bearer Process... is a best-selling author, speaker, certified SimplyHealedTM practitioner, platform builder and publishing coach who shows you how to ignite the WOW-Factor in your life and business through the power of synergistic relationships and collaboration. To find out more about working with Marnie, click here.

Where Do You Want to Be in 2 Years?

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Why is it that we do the same things over and over and expect to get different results? Why is it we settle for less than we desire and expect to be happy?

Are we so afraid of disappointment? Are we that concerned about what other people are going to think if we don’t succeed that we don’t even try? Or is it simply a lack of clarity?

In this video, I share with you a simple exercise that is so powerful it could lead you to the life of your dreams. You just need to answer one simple question with thought, feeling and honesty to transform your world…

I hope you’ll join me for my “How to Create Your Own Amazing Life” Workshop.

About Marnie Pehrson

Are you a Light Bearer? Take the FREE Light Bearer Assessment. It's a quick and easy way to find out where you are in the Light Bearer Process... is a best-selling author, speaker, certified SimplyHealedTM practitioner, platform builder and publishing coach who shows you how to ignite the WOW-Factor in your life and business through the power of synergistic relationships and collaboration. To find out more about working with Marnie, click here.

What Is Your Big WHY?

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Do you run up against a constant stream of obstacles that block your way as you work toward your monetary, business or life goals? If those are getting the better of you or are causing you to remain stuck, it could be that you just need this one thing …

Join me for the “How to Create Your Own Amazing Life” Workshop

About Marnie Pehrson

Are you a Light Bearer? Take the FREE Light Bearer Assessment. It's a quick and easy way to find out where you are in the Light Bearer Process... is a best-selling author, speaker, certified SimplyHealedTM practitioner, platform builder and publishing coach who shows you how to ignite the WOW-Factor in your life and business through the power of synergistic relationships and collaboration. To find out more about working with Marnie, click here.

Rule #2 for Creating Your Own Amazing Life

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The second rule for creating your own amazing life is to Dream BIG! Small plans have no magic to stir your soul. They have no ability to engage your enthusiasm or keep you moving forward. In this video I share my story of the power of a big dream and how you can harness it to create the life of your dreams.

Your Big WHY can’t be someone else’s why… it has to be your own. You have to be true to you and what you really want out of life. It can’t be a “should” that’s placed upon you by other people, society, etc.

A lot of times we set monetary goals, for example, because we think we’re “supposed to.” There’s so much pressure from society to excel financially… that’s the standard measure of success, but some of us aren’t even wired to care about that. We’re driven by something completely different. If you set a money “why” when you’re not even driven by money, it will have no magic to stir your soul and keep you moving forward. Find your own WHY. You can’t borrow someone else’s.

So what’s your big why? Do you know it?

Join me for the “How to Create Your Own Amazing Life” Workshop.

About Marnie Pehrson

Are you a Light Bearer? Take the FREE Light Bearer Assessment. It's a quick and easy way to find out where you are in the Light Bearer Process... is a best-selling author, speaker, certified SimplyHealedTM practitioner, platform builder and publishing coach who shows you how to ignite the WOW-Factor in your life and business through the power of synergistic relationships and collaboration. To find out more about working with Marnie, click here.

Rule #1 for Creating Your Own Amazing Life

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In this video I share rule #1 for creating your own amazing life. This rule is fundamental and if you violate it, you do so at your own peril. You can actually drive your dream away from you if you ignore this rule.

Please join me for my “How to Create Your Own Amazing Life” Workshop coming up soon. Details here.

About Marnie Pehrson

Are you a Light Bearer? Take the FREE Light Bearer Assessment. It's a quick and easy way to find out where you are in the Light Bearer Process... is a best-selling author, speaker, certified SimplyHealedTM practitioner, platform builder and publishing coach who shows you how to ignite the WOW-Factor in your life and business through the power of synergistic relationships and collaboration. To find out more about working with Marnie, click here.

Are You Focusing on What Is? Or What Can Be?

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I love this quote from Julie Ann Turner’s book, “Genesis of Genius:”

I believe each of us reaches a turning point in life — a crossroad of choice when the day comes, as the writer Anais Nin so beautifully describes it, ‘when the risk to remain tight in the bud is more painful than the risk it takes to blossom.’

That moment we realize that what has come before, no matter how comfortable it may be, can no longer serve our highest self, and that, in order to expand into our highest potential we must consciously choose the path of What Can Be … The quest of discovery begins.”

And as my friend Dr. Roger Moczygemba of myQuickdoc.com noted,

The discomfort we feel before we feel the need to break out of the bud will never happen if we are not continuously striving to improve.”

If we’re on a path of self-improvement, which most entrepreneurs are, we will eventually come to that point when we realize we’ve stayed inside the bud for too long. And that shift from “What Is” to “What Can Be” is the key, as Julie Ann Turner talks about in her book.

Before and After MarnieFor me, that shift from feeling like I was stuck with “What Is” to focusing on “What Can Be” happened on a ride home from a family vacation to the beach two years ago. For nearly a decade I was unhappy in my marriage, but I thought I had to settle for what was. Not until I finally realized and owned the fact that I was the creator of my own life and could choose a different relationship dynamic, did I finally get a clear picture of what I DID want. You see, it’s easy to moan and groan about what’s not working, it’s an entirely different thing to get clear on what you want INSTEAD!

And that’s what I did — I got incredibly clear on the relationship I DID want. I was fully open to my existing marriage being this. I thought perhaps that if I traveled the path of self-improvement, became the person I envisioned, that my marriage would shift along with it. But that was not to be. Instead, there came a time when it was clearly evident that for the good of everyone I had to let it go.

During that pivotal drive back from the beach, I shifted my mental gaze from “What Is” to “What Can Be.” As a result, I began creating the life of my dreams. I’m happier, healthier, 40 pounds lighter, and loving the relationships I’m creating. To hear more of my transformational story (which I documented thoroughly as I went) and to find out how you can create your own ideal life too, please join me for my “How to Create Your Own Amazing Life WorkshopDetails here.

About Marnie Pehrson

Are you a Light Bearer? Take the FREE Light Bearer Assessment. It's a quick and easy way to find out where you are in the Light Bearer Process... is a best-selling author, speaker, certified SimplyHealedTM practitioner, platform builder and publishing coach who shows you how to ignite the WOW-Factor in your life and business through the power of synergistic relationships and collaboration. To find out more about working with Marnie, click here.

Does God Really Want You To Be Happy?

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Are you tired of your life? Bored? Burn-out? In a rut? But when you think about what it would take to really feel the fire again, you decide it’s too impossible. Or maybe you even think it’s wrong to want more.

This was me two and a half years ago. While I was incredibly successful in my business, my personal life was a mess. I felt stuck and trapped. I didn’t think there was any way out of the relationship I was in. In fact, I was quite certain God would be mad at me for even thinking that I could change the situation.

Yet, one pivotal trip home from Seacrest Beach, Florida, I did something that set in motion a chain of actions and events that revolutionized my world. God began revealing to me that He indeed WANTED me to be happy! That He was excited for me to find joy in my life and have the type of relationship I envisioned.

Yet, He couldn’t free me from my existing trap until I got SUPER CLEAR and DECIDED what I wanted instead. I couldn’t just moan or suffer in silence. I had to get clear on what I wanted instead. And once I did… EVERYTHING started changing.

Here’s my story…

About Marnie Pehrson

Are you a Light Bearer? Take the FREE Light Bearer Assessment. It's a quick and easy way to find out where you are in the Light Bearer Process... is a best-selling author, speaker, certified SimplyHealedTM practitioner, platform builder and publishing coach who shows you how to ignite the WOW-Factor in your life and business through the power of synergistic relationships and collaboration. To find out more about working with Marnie, click here.





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